Moms okay please help?

so here is the deal im 5 and a Christan and im not allowed to date like im not allowed to have guy friends or even talk to a guy on the phone i think it is really ridiculous that every time i wan to hang out with one of my guy friends y mom says NO YOU CANT BECAUSE HE IS GOING TO YOU or something like that i think it is stupid and uncalled for expessially since he goes to my church and my family knows his family and its lame i dont want to date for a while but i want to hang out with my guy friend and just have fun !!!! any advice